Tuesday, April 16, 2013

TMI Tuesday: Sex

1. Have you ever considered yourself completely sexually satisfied?

Oh, absolutely. There have been a number of times where I feel like it was more than enough, like the night I was tied and blindfolded. It was the perfect combination of excitement, teasing, experimentation, and having my partner know what I needed.

2. What was the last sexy photo you took?

The last Sinful Sunday, a pinstripe corset and skirt pulled up to expose ass. My dearest sister had to put makeup on my ass to cover some bruising from a spanking, an experience we kept joking about never imagining going through

3. When was the last sexy photo you took AND sexted? What was it of and to whom was it sent?

Some of the photos that my sis took I sent to my partner, who was not with me. He replied with a few yummy ideas of what he wanted to do, and of course I came back with some decadent ideas as well. I was in numerous pieces of lingerie, since I sent an array photos.

4. How is your sex-life?
a. Like a wet blanket
b. Like a warm cozy comforter
c. Like an electric blanket getting you all heated up
d. None of the above, I sleep without covers

c. Like an electric blanket getting you all heated up: we have always added new elements, but slowly, so it's comfortable but not what I'd describe "cozy". Cozy, to me, implies settled, tucked, standard. We never get into any routines, and we are always evolving. Heating things up. That doesn't mean we don't stick with a particular "favorite" positon for a week or more, but there are far too many possibilities, and we like exploring, not to mention almost every session we go through several positions. And my goodness, but my man gets me so hot and bothered. Since reading blogs, however, we've really increased the speed in which we change and I suggest/demand new things.

5. What’s your idea of good foreplay?

A long session of it, starting with my mind with the promise or hint of what is to come, compliments throughout the day, shared fantasies, and when we do come together: passion and attention to each other - unhurriedly but with an intensity.
For myself, it would be nice if I could orgasm before he even penetrates me.

Bonus: Can you have a great, long-lasting sex life with the same partner? How?

Absolutely, by communicating, continuing to fantasize and share, experimenting, giving each other independence so there is space to close when together, and looking at each with new/fresh perspectives as we change and grow.

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  1. Sexy sinful sunday pic.

    Excellent TMI Tuesday answers.


  2. The answers that you offer here are indeed great sex tips!

  3. This week's FFF is a great picture - you should join!