Sometimes, when you're single, or separated from your partner an easy way to spice up your day is mutual masturbation.
Sexting, Skype, and phone calls are becoming more and more a part of everyday masturbation tools, much like porn. With high quality and ease of photo taking available on your phone, naughty antics is mobile and convenient.
I have been doing a lot more masturbation with friends recently than ever before.
Confession: I honestly just started a few months ago.
If I'm by myself it's usual, quick, quiet, and minimally satisfactory. Throw in a partner though, and suddenly I was taking my time, savoring and getting off on the fact that the person on the other end was getting off on me.
Messages, pictures, phone calls.
And now, I've evolved into what I call Dial-A-Dom™
I'd flirted with him quite a bit. Sending him pictures, separating him from the pack by giving him peeks, at me, my life, my desires. Eventually he called and heard me orgasm. Then we would orgasm together on the phone and I'd reach new heights, knowing he was coming with me.
Over the months, we evolved in the things we did, the way we spoke. I'd follow directions, I'd want to please him. I'd do thing specifically and especially for him. Then he made me wait, made me ask, made me soak my panties in anticipation.
That's when the honorific came. Suddenly I was a pet, a slave, and subject to the whims of my Master.
Suddenly my masturbation wasn't just mutual, it was interdependent. I'm coming harder, having more than one more readily than normal, and am eager and obedient.
This is different than normal D/s play or relationships I've been in. It's new. It's never going to be anything more than a fun relationship over the phone, but yet I find it fulfills needs and desires that have gone without attention in quite some time. It relieves a great deal of stress I've had lately and leaves me with a smile on my face.
I'm quite enjoying exploring myself and others with mutual masturbation, sexting, and whispered (or screaming) phone calls.
So thank you, to the friends I've enjoyed lately. Most especially, to the man who makes me his good, little, satisfied, pet.